Let me drop this link here:
Junkyard Horsepower
I did many of the same noodlings on "how can I get more power!" Eventually I came away with if I wanted a sports car, I should have bought a sports car. If I wanted a sporty SUV, I should have ponied up the cash and purchased a Cayenne or a Range Rover Sport (one of the new ones with a bazillion HP). An easy, cheap mod to make 25% more HP doesn't exist on these trucks, and if it did, it certainly wouldn't pass emissions (at least in my state) and it would cut the gas mileage in half, and probably ruin the engine in short order.
If you want better pickup, look into new gears (or flush your transmission), if you want better mileage, throw out the third row seats (or flush your differentials), if you want to drive corners faster get a better suspension (from
ADD preferably).
For me the thing I want most of all is a better roof rack and a tow hitch - because whenever I drive to Home depot it makes me angry when I have to secure lumber to the roof. My wife wants a backup camera so she doesn't worry when she backs out of the driveway (lots of kids in the neighborhood), right now that's plenty. Sure I'd like a lift springs, and a new set of skid plates, and they're even on my short list. I'd even like another 100 hp if I could find them, but I'd be more happy with a couple vacation days and enough spare cash to take the kids up in the mountains.
For me the final straw that broke the camels back was watching my mileage with respect to my speed. I rarely drive more than 100 miles, so, the difference between 65 and 70MPH for 100 miles works out to ~6 minutes, I can't even load my kids in the truck in 6 minutes, the difference in mileage is 13 to 16 which nets me an extra gallon of gas, which means over the course of a long drive (say to go visit the inlaws - denver to minneapolis) I get to skip a gas stop. All this to me adds up to the adage "go slower to go faster."