Possible solution
Thanks for your replies: I neglected to say this is a Max Coupler equipped trailer, it is not a ball hitch. The Max Coupler is square tube (male) that slides with very little wiggle room into the LR4 - 2 inch channel of the hitch receiver. Release (and engagement for that matter) requires fairly precise alignment. I am thinking that I will turn the truck ignition on: lower the truck to access height and lock it there, then turn the truck ignition off. Then lower the jockey wheel and crank it up to unweight the hitch. I know how to find where this this point is, by pushing the truck around a little and observing whether the MaxCoupler is moving at all inside the receiver or binding. Once MaxCoupler appears to be free and with little or no weight on the receiver, I will turn the truck ignition on and hope there will be no urge to 'level up'. I ought to be able to drive forward a few inches to release the MaxCoupler at access height. At the moment, this makes sense to me and your answers really helped, so many thanks. Standby...