The WJ is a great Jeep. I have the 4.0 and Selectrac, but it's surely no horsepower giant. With 4 people and a dog and gear, the V8 may be desireable. Not to get in a urination festival over the V8 vs the 4.0

eepwall:, but I prefer the reliability of the 4.0 motor.
There are some good simple suspension choices for the WJ -- I have a 3" Iron Rock Offroad.
Another option for you would be a 4-door JK, though you could put yourself in a WJ for far less money than a 4-door JK. When I went looking for a used JK for my new daily driver, I found guys with '07 and '08 2-door JKs with 120,000 miles still asking like $13,000. :Wow1: Too much for me. I picked up my 93K mile '04 WJ for about $6K.
Good luck
Pete