Ether works (kind of) but as the ether burns it uses up oxygen generating a partial vacuum that often (usually) pulls the tire back off the rim (we have ganged several cheap compressors together and managed to get the tire to stay on the rim while using the ether trick.
... as mentioned, often just getting the load off the tire is enough; although small leaks can sometimes be sealed with nearly any thing viscous (dish soap, orange juice, grease etc.).
Ratchet straps, even a couple of turns of rope can help.
If you unseat beads regularly you need more air pressure (7-10 psi, off road, is relatively safe, for me, in terms of bead retention, although I have run as low as 4 psi, off road) or to stop driving obstacles with the sidewall... note: some rims have a better safety bead (raised section of rim just inside the mounted tire bead).
Some folks really need bead locks (either internal or external)...
I have very good success by using rims the same width or narrower than the actual, measured, tread width (a XX x 12.50 tire rarely has 12 inches of tread width; 12.50 is the section width not the tread width)... some folks, though, are totally sold on using rim widths narrower than the tire manufacturer's recommendation.
Enjoy!