I use a non-wratcheting wrench to get the passenger cam right on the timing mark. it should rest there, but will slip off and spin with a lot of force.
I also turn the crank back (counter clock wise) about 1 tooth, that way when you rotate clockwise, all the slack between the driver's side cam is pulled up and the timing mark aligns. You can also use this idea between the driver's and passenger cams. this will help pull in the slack under the water pump and put the driver's cam at the alignment mark.
I like your zip tie idea, to hold the belt onto the cam, will work well once you get the passenger cam at the holding spot. I usually use binder clips, they go on and off quickly.
Also... if you notice on the cam covers, they have a little bit of play where they can be installed... this means that the timing mark can move around a little as well....you'll know if you're a tooth off, but being just a little bit off seems to not cause any issues.