If you're after weight savings, still want to be able to winch, and aren't looking for something that you'll regularly bounce off rocks, ARB and/or Calmini may be your best options - they're lightweight, stronger than stock, you can use them to winch, and you'll be a better approach angle.
Now, if you want something that'll stand up to abuse go with Shrock or Hefty. Shrockworks probably makes the best one out there and Hefty gets some (sometimes deserved) flack - but I'm running a Hefty that I got used and haven't had any issues. I've winched with it and be strapped over things with no problems.