Thanks for replying, I was starting to think no one had any opinions on this matter.
Ultimately I am looking for something I wont have to worry about again for many many years, and although I am poor, the front suspension is basically the last major thing that is left be rebuilt on my Van, and I am willing to pay more for quality.
20 google pages of Moog vs Spicer hits have left me with the impression that Spicer wears longer, but I've been corresponding with someone who claims a large percentage of even the quality Moog and Affinia Subsidiarity parts are coming in with torn dust covers, missing grease zerk fittings, or unthreaded zerk. Some of the Diesel Dodge 4x4 forums revile MOOG though that might be a design flaw with a particular ball joint for that truck..
And a Lot of forums are saying XRF Bj's, Although made in Taiwan, are a really nice design, and very nicely built.
I have found one place that sells them, though they say they will sell direct over the phone.
Anyway here is their web page to navigate around:
http://www.xrfchassis.com/difference-better.htm
Here's a spot that sells them online. They are about the same as Moog or Spicer.
http://www.thetireclub.com/ShopByVehicle.epc?q=1989-DODGE-Van--B--50--3/4--Ton-V8--318ci--5.--l--F/i--Vin--Y&yearid=1989%40%401989&makeid=23%40%40DODGE%40%40&modelid=4988%40%40VAN+B250+3/4+TON&engineid=5914%40%40V8-318ci+5.2L+F/I+Vin+Y%40%405914&catid=9@@Steering/Suspension&subcatid=139@@Ball+Joints+and+Control+Arms&mode=PA
The pictures and part numbers are Macquay norris extreme.
Anyhow keep the opinions thoughts and experiences coming.
I'm gonna make a run around town today and have the AP stores parade their selection so I can have a look see..
EDIT: None of the part stores had any MOOG in stock, but the only items I held in my hands today that impressed me was the Napa Ball joint and tie rod end. Some of the grease boots were very thin and an extremely poor fit. The Duralast probably looked better than anything cheap from Kragen, pep boys, but the Napa parts were obviously what I would buy, even at twice the price.
But I'm ordering the XRF BJ's and TRE's from the tire club tomorrow, and will report back.