Good catch on the DJI being appropriate for Lithium.
I would agree on needing to match chemistry, but not on your other points.
-- If your Subaru charges at the appropriate voltage, typically around 14.4v at 20C, then all you need is a properly sized connection between your starter battery and your camper battery. I would recommend some way of disconnecting the two batteries when not on charge, I like automatic relays, but you could, if you don't have solar, use an ignition controlled relay or even a manual switch.
-- The CTEK D250S is a nice product but it has very low output, hence the recommendation that it be combined with a CTEK SmartPass. This combo gets pricey, but it can be a very good deal if you have a small solar setup as the D250S incorporates a solar controller.
-- Your stater battery and camper battery do not have to be of the same size or age; just similar chemistries.
My future setup was supposed to be the following:
ARB fridge in the car 24/7, used daily for groceries and cold drink during hot summer days in this part of the world. During the driving, I wanted the AUX battery to be charged, while the car is OFF the fridge should run from aux.
SInce last two days, I am doing a test at home: fridge set to -4C (this way at the bottom, based on temp reading inside, the temp is 0C at the bottom), after 48 hours with fridge 3/4 full, the battery dropped to 11.8V. The fridge is set to low in conf to cut off at lower possible voltage. I want to see how long it can work.
Your idea of connecting two batteries (even different chemistry) to the same car alternator sounds good, although it can only work IMHO for topping off the battery, since it is a rather stupid charging and not multiple step one.
The simplest way is to connect via relay connected to ignition, so as soon as the ignition is off, the fridge is powered from the aux only. When ignition is on, the fridge can be powered directly from the power socket of 12V (voltage level controlled) or still from the battery connected to alternator (voltage will be higher).
Are there any decent products for this setup or should I just create one?
CTEK combo (smartpass with dual charger) is VERY pricey, but I was not able to find any specs for max current charging to understand the speed. I though it can be up to 20A (too good to be true?). Furthermore, I do not plan on any solar panels to be attached.
I hope this i not considered as thread hijack.