2010 Xterra is 108k. Besides oil changes the only time the hood has needed to be opened is to change the battery (twice as of the Janurary)
The only hoist is for tire rotations which are wearing true and never needed an alignment. Thinking about getting around to doing the 105k spark plug change sometime in the next year.
Anything that has been worked on was my own doing, my choice, not because it was needed.
I do tow with it. Usually just a motorcycle, sometimes a boat. Couple of times I have borrowed a car trailer to haul a car around. It will see forest service roads, but not extreme trails. I think I have lifted a tire on a trail once. And I have built dedicated rock crawlers in the past.
I do see some early catalyst failures. But I can almost always narrow that down to poor maintenance. The 15k oil change is fine crowd. Well that works for about the first 6 years and 100k or so. Then the engine starts eating oil and that wastes the cats. Now you need a new engine to go with those new cats, or just put new cats on and sell it, or put new cats on and wonder why they failed again so soon? Oil changes are cheap. No matter what, you drive the extreme driving pattern and need the short interval oil changes. Less than 1% of the population can get by with the extended service interval.