I use a formula that hasnt failed me.
Locate the center of your axle, or equalizer if you are doing a tandem, 1" back from center for every foot of length.
I have a 5x12 tandem I built a couple years ago that I can move around by hand (albeit heavy), but handles fine at all speeds.
Then there is always the 60/40 split. If you have a 10' trailer, you will place your axle 1' behind center.
It also depends on how you are going to load it. The lastest trailer I built I put the axle right in the center. But Ive got the spare and a tool chest mounted on the front. So its got permanent weight on the tounge.