Yes, a manual switch will work. But I use my rig a lot and no way would I want to have to deal with that switch on a daily basis (or a many times a day basis).
There are reasons for using a manual switch, but I certainly would not choose to go with a manual switch just to prevent the off chance of theoretically welding the contacts of a winch/golf cart type solenoid during the rare times (once or twice a year) that I've had to jump start the truck off the aux battery. I've jumped the 460 through the solenoid a few times and had 0 issues.
The truck is a Ford, which has an external starter relay, which is basically the same as the solenoids that we're talking about here, except it's not rated for continuous use. But there is no doubt that it can handle the starter current. I carry a spare starter solenoid in the parts box anyway, so if the battery solenoid did happen to fail out in the field, I could easily swap in the starter relay an run with it until I got to town and got a replacement battery solenoid.
I've known guys who've used Ford starter solenoids as battery isolators for years without having them fail, so even though they aren't 'technically' for continuous use (like a winch/golf cart solenoid), anecdotal evidence shows they seem to handle it just fine.
I suppose, to be really top notch, hot ********, high speed, low drag, full race, Professional (with a capital P
), Custom (with a capital C
), it would be pretty simple to rig a winch/golf cart solenoid powered off the main battery (engine run circuit) for day-to-day battery isolator use, and also parallel a starter solenoid next to it with a (momentary) switch to energize if off the aux battery.
Then if a self-jump was needed, one could just push the button to energize the starter solenoid to tie the batteries and start the truck - and no worries about welding the contacts in a starter solenoid.
Might as well also rig that switch to cut power to the battery solenoid at the same time so no current can possibly go through it.
But again, if someone were really worried about burning up their isolator solenoid during those rare times when they need to jump start the truck off the aux battery, there is a simple way to protect the solenoid - use jumper cables.
(BTW, anyone looking to use a switch should be aware that there are two types; "Make before break", and "break before make". Make before break is generally preferred for RV/Marine use, since you can switch between batteries without losing power to the loads.)