Just a quick update on this...got back from my trip to tahoe and the setup worked great! I unplugged the fridge from the trailer and ran it off the battery cart (separate from trailer + truck). Once the battery ran down, I rolled the cart back to the truck, started it and let it run for a minute or two, then plugged in the cart, it charged right up and worked great. Took about an hour to charge the battery almost back to 100%.
Using 4ga wire, I was getting ~0.3v drop from main battery to the charging battery in the rear. I was surprised, I was expecting more drop (through solenoid + wire + connectors).
Next up will be to upgrade to larger solenoid + 0ga wire + extra jumper switch to be able to jump backwards through the system. Realistically, this is a low priority since I can easily manually jump from the backup using the jumper cables I carry.