I think I am having a conversation with my self here...but maybe someone will find it worth while.
after many trials of different designs and ideas I ended up hard mounting it to the drivers side of the camper. talked to FWC and they told me about the 5" (+/-) channel that rounds down the length of the camper and they typicaly mount their fiamma awnings with a dozen or so self tapping screws along that. so thats what I did. used some RV seal tape and then caulked around the extrusions on the back of the awning for some extra insurence. the thing is not going anywhere or leaking. I have a light on the drivers side and added a storage compartment on that side (previous post) so its kind of command central on that side, gas hook up, light and power ports. pictures to come after using it this up coming weekend. turns out that the lowest point on the awning is about 6'-5" considering my lift on my truck so its about perfect (I am 6'-2").