We chose the 285/70-17 Falken Wild Peak (Rebranded by Discount Tire to read Rocky Mountain) to go with the same lift you're going with. They offer a three ply sidewall to stand up to trail use, have a ton of edges for snow and ice, and the long latteral grooves have performed OK in light mud. The do exceptionally well in dry conditions and on pavement too.
Regardless of what the others may say, an extra 3/8" in of diff clearance does make a difference. When you air down, it really comes into play.
To make the changes required when going up in tire size, you will need the AEV ProCal to go along with the lift.
I think you will be very, very pleased with the lift and brackets. We have really enjoyed ours! I've owned some high end Tacoma suspensions, and the budget AEV 2.5 performs on par with ICON and Sway-A-Way. Perfect tuning of both the coils and shocks provides for a truely stellar ride off pavement.