Cool. I'll check out Synergy as well. The other day I was reading about their ball joints.
The Front Runner table arrived today. It's ridiculously expensive for what it is...but the mounting system is great. Also, I looked up the manta awning again and it's 50 lbs. as Rino stated, not 150. So, the RTT is 130, the rack is 90 (I think, can't find any info that's concrete and I'm sure not going to take it off just to weigh it), 30 for the table, 50 for the awning.....maybe an axe bracket and a light mount. I guess is that I will have added a total about 300 lbs to the roof. Sheesh. One of the bonuses to the Front Runner rack is that I can remove the hard top and put the rack back on (just remembered this last night). This might be the solution (or at least some help) to COG issues. I'm normally topless from March to October every year so little will change.
I took it out to hit 70 mph this afternoon. Gonna have to live with it. I really hope that the added weight of an ARB fridge, a drawer or two, and a small pile of sundry items in the rear and some real bumpers will help to lower COG. My hope for a magical suspension fix is dwindling but I will put something a bit more beefy underneath at some point. Definitely going to put in a sway bar?
IMO, the items above aren't unnecessary "crap" (with the possible exception of the RTT). These things represent the bare minimum for car camping. If I had a larger rig it wouldn't be a problem. Years of ultralight backpacking have taught me that I just prefer to be comfortable.

Expensive hammocks, ultralight tents, etc. all have one common factor for me. I get no sleep. The RTT is very comfortable and trailers/campers suck.
Looks like I'm gonna have to sacrifice ride quality for that preference. That, and staying around 65 mph. Thanks so much for the help Yall.