Carl,
Get the 2500.
I just bought a 2004 2500 LT with Autoride. 134k miles $5000. The rockers are rusted and I had to replace the front hubs and do a crank sensor relearn.
I wanted the 2500 because of the drivetrain. I only looked for 6.0 not 8.1. I have a 2004 3500 box truck with the 6.0 and 556k miles. That engine lasts forever. And the transmission is much more durable.
The Autoride on the 2500 does not have self leveling like it would on the 1500. On the 2500 it has self adjusting shocks.
The 2500 Suburban frame and drivetrain is completely different from the 1500. They also have 2 fuel tanks.
I get 13mpg.
Oh and if you look hard enough you could find a 4 Wheel Steering 2500.