Either the 4 runners or Montero would be a great choice, both infinitely more reliable than a disco. I think there are many solid explanations and budget expectations of 4 runners throughout Reddit. Regarding the Montero, let me direct you to a previous post of mine weighing the pros and cons of a gen 2 and 3 Montero.
If he is really considering the Montero make sure he:
- Buys a limited, not xls.
- Runs the centre diff through 2wd through to 4lolo on gravel or dirt.
- Outside of that, tell him to check out the links included in my gen 2/3 post.