Thanks all, I feel like I'm being buffeted by the Diesel vs. Gas storm. I'm enjoying researching everything.
Hypothetically...
What if I were to sometimes pull, for example, a TT with a wet weight of ~6000# with an F350 6.2 SRW along with the Lance 865 loaded on at the same time?
As Rovertrader said, as long as you are at or near sea level, or on relatively flat ground, not a problem. Once you encounter elevation changes, especially up at altitude, the diesel with its low end torque and the turbo packing air into the engine make a huge difference.
I have both a Ford V-10, and a Dodge/Cummins dually. The dually hauls the camper and a Jeep on a trailer behind it. The gas V-10 has to shift down on every hill and you have to ask yourself - is that good for the transmission? And the engine just screams at ~ 4,000 rpm...and you can literally watch the gas gauge falling. The diesel just loafs along with no drama. No constant shifting, and the engine rarely gets above 2,000 rpm.
But to me the real kicker is the mileage. The gas V10 gets 12 mpg running empty; towing I'm looking at 8-9 mpg. The dually diesel, hauling camper and pulling the Jeep gets 13-14 mpg. Even with diesel being more expensive than gas (and right now, diesel is cheaper in some locations), that makes a difference. At 8 mpg that 36 gallon tank has me looking for fuel every 200 miles or less. At 13 mpg I can go 400 miles. And where I live, that makes a difference!