Option 2 involves a little more creativity but works effectively the same. Instead of grabbing the signal wire directly at the box, you grab it out of the plug that is located in the passenger kick panel.
Things to purchase: Aux switch panel for your truck ($70), concours specialties relay/fuse box ($135), and a terminal repair kit (12" of wire with the proper connector crimped on ready to plug into the existing plug) through the dealer ($25)
Here is a picture of the plug in the passenger kick panel. You can see the white wires from the terminal repair kit wrapped in electrical tape coming out of the plug. The mopar pn for the terminal repair kit is 68316924AA
This is a 3D model of what the plug looks like by itself
This is how MOPAR numbers each wire
This is the breakdown of which wire connects to the factory auxiliary switches through the existing plug based on the terminal number and it also includes the wire color which is helpful.
So all trucks have the wiring from the switch panel down to this plug. If you do not have the aux switches, the wire will not connect on the other side. So that is why you need the "terminal repair kit". You push the wire into the factory plug and they clip into place to allow you to connect them to the relay box from Concours Specialties. We mounted the Concours Specialties box in the same location I showed in Option 1. I prefer the Concours Specialties since it is a smaller design and has a rubber gasket for the cover.
You would run the wire out from the plug to the relay ground in the new relay box for the appropriate relay number.. so not the main ground for the box. For example, the wire coming out of terminal 14 (Aux 2) should connect to the ground specifically for relay 2 in the box.
Going back to the relay diagram in the first option:
You will need to connect the main power and the main ground both to your positive terminal on your battery. Yes, I said that right. Reference the diagram above.. This will make the relay act as a negative trigger. If you do not do this and you connect the relay box conventionally you will fry the aux switches. This is exactly how "4th Gen Ram Electronics" has their box set up. You can see in the picture I posted in option one of the labeled wires there is 2 main +12v Inputs and no main ground at all to the relay box. The ground happens in your dash harness as the OEM switches are designed and also a spot chosen by you near your accessories.