Gary - Yeah, the "need" aspects of making a truck / rig they way we want them is always a struggle...at least for me it has been.
Big Ern - Thanks, sounds like you are got a sweet set up in progress; loved the Method NV's I had on my last truck...still one of my favorite wheels on the market. ARE makes nice stuff and glad to see they started offering the 'no trim' edge on the lower portion of the topper. 100% agree on your comments on the AEV bumper. If I were not strongly considering a future move to 40" tires with the AEV flares I would give the ARB one more consideration. I do appreciate the extra protection the ARB offers and at one point thought the guys at AEV said they were coming out with optional grill protection for theirs in addition to just the light bar tube but have yet to see that come to fruition. Also, for additional intercooler protection take a look at ASFIR. Never seen them in person but they seem to be the only option for a complete Ram HD skid plate 'package' and they do have an intercooler one (I think one of the guys on here just bought one for his newer Ram). Sounds like you have to ship it in from the middle east.
DPP and AEV both claim to be working on external res shocks specifically for the AEV 3"...DPP is stated to be using Fox components not sure on AEV's approach as they have been tight lipped on this one, at least on their forum. Our intended usage sounds very similar and I have ridden in a Carli equipped truck and it was an awesome ride, I mainly went with the AEV route as I wanted to keep the core payload capabilities of the truck (slide in camper perhaps down the road) and I didn't want to mess with air bags. Also, I appreciate the 'eco-system' approach AEV takes...wheels, flares, bumpers, suspension, ProCal, etc...everything just fits and works in harmony. Lazy approach on my part but it works for my needs / wants...that being said I would be interested in them offering a DOT-legal beadlock.
I agree...I was never a fan of mudflaps before but I love the AEV ones...coverage is spot on for the 37x12.50's and they are not obnoxiously larger. That Baja Design pocket light kit looks awesome and I was considering that for when the bumper comes; have heard elsewhere the light output is "INSANE", glad to hear you validate that. Did you do them on a separate switch because of the 2017's CAN bus requirement / design? I've seen those OE adaptors that light you just plug and play with the Baja lights but have read they don't work on the 2017 and newer Ram's. Also, do you have any close up photos of the mounting bracket in the factory bumper you would post on here?