Thanks to the two Daves for the comments/feedback. AZ Dave that data is interesting, I've always kind of wondered. Especially, on a recent remote outing I fried my alternator and "big" ("house") AGM battery and had to limp home 6 hours with just the 35AH AGM and an alternator that wouldn't charge, above some small loading. Basically, when driving, my voltage monitor would show ~13.5V; but if I turned on my headlights or air conditioner it would drop to 12.5V (draining battery) after 10-20 seconds. It made me ponder what were the actual battery drains (bare minimum) for daytime driving...I came up: with fuel pump, spark, brake lights, and dash instruments. Anyways, I made it home safely--even enjoyed a route over the Sierra-Nevada mountains that I had never been on before--but was definitely sweating bullets for the first hour or two.
Dave Colorado: The "ideal diode" I use for the two AGM batteries is Perfect Switch PowerGate single rectifier, found here:
https://perfectswitch.com/isolators/single-rectifier-isolator/
I've been using this product for 14 years and am very happy with it as well as the customer support. I went 10+ years without having to talk to them, and when after the above-described adventure (fried big battery/alternator) I had to place a call to get a replacement unit the same founder/owner/operator was there for me, spending time on the phone and getting me back up and running as quickly as possible. He is also an expedition enthusiast which makes everything pleasant even when plunking down a decent chunk of change. My experience is: money well spent.
Also, something relevant I forgot to mention: I only use the solar when parked, not driving (it's a 2-panel custom clam shell folding desing), so there will be no alternator in-play whe using solar.
With this new LiFePO4 addition to the setup, I was hoping to minimizing additional switches but I'm tending to agree with you that that's probably the best thing to do. I ordered some heavy duty 3-way toggle switch that I'll strategically place...not only for solar routing but also for my "LiFePO4-only" loads so I can switch them to use the AGM house battery only.
Incidentally, I've been looking for a LiFePO4 battery monitor (current shunt-based) to track charging/discharging (coulomb-meter) and couldn't find anything with (1) simple/compact wired visual display unit and (2) bluetooth functionality that fit within any kind of reasonable budget. I like to buy American, but I just couldn't find something satisfactory that fit this simple criteria for < $200, which I thought was kind of absurd. So, I've ordered and received a Chinesium product that fits the bill and was only $50. I'm currently testing it with my LiFePO4 battery (on a bench in the garage, loading with a couple 12V headlight lamps and re-charging with AC-DC charger), and so far, so good. If anyone is interested to try this product, it's a pretty small investment. It comes in 50A, 100A, and 400A versions and i went with the 100A (the shunt becomes quite large with the 400A). Search terms in amazon are " "groupchn" battery coulomb counter". Picture of the one I got shown below:
