If your not opposed to the look, I believe flat fenders will get you 37" on you 3.5 AEV. You can put the AEV on and 37's and see if it works for you. IF it doesn't, then you have a couple of options. Flat fenders or, as was mentioned, source just the 4.5" springs, I believe all of the other components are the same you just install them a little differently. Question, why a 3.5 instead of 4.5? They are pretty close in price if I recall. Did you just find a deal on the 3.5? I went with the 4.5 because I got a deal on it and currently have 35's. Love the way my Jeep drives with this lift. I quit doing extreme trails long ago, so I wanted a good ride on the road that would give me the ability for larger tires and clearance for mild trails. Not going to lie, like the way it looks too. I just can't leave a Jeep alone in it's stock configuration.