I think you are making this much harder than you need to. Included in your calculations is a lot of power consumption you simply do not need. For instance, fans, vent, computer lots of lights etc. If you boil it down to the fridge and some lights, a standard two battery set up will likely cover it.
Trying to have enough battery power on board for every possible contingency will leave you with a truck full of batteries and not much else. If you consider that a 100amphour battery weighs roughly 75 pounds, you can see that carrying a lot of power gets heavy fast. Plus, you will want to keep some power in reserve to restart your truck.
Some random thoughts...
Your fridge does not run continuously. Keep it inthe shade and closed and it won't run much at all.
Charge your laptop while driving. Use it as you want, but when the battery gets low, put it away until you're driving again and have plenty of power available.
Use a propane or white gas lantern needed, or have a fire, or when it gets real dark, go to bed. I find that on long trips I tend to get up at first light and rarely stay up late. Dinner prep usually can be done in the light, with the cooking and eating as it gets dark.
Fancy battery monitoring is just one more gadget you don't need. An interesting toy for sure, but you don't need it. A toy that is useful and cheap is a DVM which should be part of your tool kit. You can tell the state of charge fairly accurately by the voltage reading, not by the gauge on the dash.
The microwave is a really bad idea, plus you need a really big inverter to run it. A camp stove works great and is part of the charm of camping out. Coffee maker--same thoughts. Get a kettle to heat water and a Mileta cone and you have low tech excellent coffee.
Your stock alternater will almost certainly supply enough current. If it isn't, you should stay home where you have wall power and your microwave.
I just got back from a week in Death Valley running 2 ARB fridges, Ham radio, stereo plus all the usual stuff like computer and camera charging, dome lights etc.. Only one morning did I get a no start condition. I self jumped with the dual battery system--no big deal.
If you want to sit for a week without running the motor, you are going to need one heck of a battery bank. It basically will not work in any practical sense, unless you don't run any electrical drains ata all.
AGM type patteries can accept charge at a pretty high rate. You'll be surprised at how fast your alternater will top your batteries up to snuf.
So, in my opinion, I would test your set up before you spend any extra money. Get a good dual battery system and try it. If you are constantly out of power, either get more capacity, or leave home some more stuff.