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He probably should put a switch on that so he can shut them off. The 3-way switch setup mentioned earlier in the thread works very well in situations like that.
But to answer the question, a way to add a delay would be to put a resistor inline with the wire going to the coil of the light's relay, and then put a large capacitor across the relay coil itself. The time-constant of the circuit created by the resistor & capacitor will prevent the relay from energizing for a brief moment (values to start with might be 24-27 ohms for the resistor, and 22,000µF (22mF) for the capacitor. This should provide roughly a 1 second delay (typical automotive lighting relays click in at about 7-9 volts). Adjust the size of the capacitor accordingly if a longer or shorter delay is desired).
Note that this will also create a similar delay while shutting it off too.