First, what kind of recoil pad does your Winchester have? If it's a hard plastic butt plate, or if it has a rubber recoil pad that is compressed from sitting in a safe for decades, you may have a really different shooting experience by fitting a new Limbsaver recoil pad or something similar.
Second, there are some reduced recoil/managed recoil 30-30 loads out there. With modern bullets they are still great deer loads at reasonable ranges. Good luck finding them right now, but it's something you might want to look out for when things go back to "normal."
Finally, I love my .357 lever gun. I was a gun nerd for a long time, and I've kind of grown out of it, so I just have a few things that work really well for the way I live my rural life. My Marlin 1894c in .357 is one of the most useful things I own, period. The recoil even with full power .357 loads is noticeably lower than a .30-30. Mine feeds .38 Specials reasonably well, so lower recoil practice is a thing. I'm a handloader so I can tuneammo however I want, but you can find factory ammo loaded to all sorts of levels.
Marlin is on hiatus right now. They were bought by Ruger, which I think is a good thing, and are supposed to be producing guns again by the end of the year. The Miroku produced Winchesters are beautiful rifles, albeit spendy. The Rossis are a little rough but functional.