Found the source of all my exhaust noise frustration.
So I packed up my tools and headed down to Good ol' Pick and Pull for their half price weekend. After getting there and the guy behind the counter telling me that they didnt have what I was looking for I went onto their lot and found two FSJs within 30 feet of each other both with the manifold I was looking for.
Side by side of the old and new old manifold.
While I was there I noticed they had some stock mirrors, they turned out to be power but I decided to give them a go. I got them home and mounted them up.
I like an idiot didn't check if the mirror switch actually worked so now my smokin' deal is gonna cost me more then I had intended trying to figure that problem out but they look pretty nice