Many Ways to Do This
Each intelligent relay controller has a slightly different way of doing grossly the same thing: Closing a relay (solenoid) when there is a charger present at either or one one of the batteries and opening the relay when there is not. The one that is best for you may depend on many things:
-- Manual or semi-automatic relay. The Traxide has some clever options here; a winch mode that times out is cute.
-- Size of relay. I tend to think that 100A is about the minimum you should have, and Blue Sea, with a 500A relay is the clear winner here. But, as noted, even a jump start may not require that large a relay as the actual surge can be limited to be of short duration. And, as my colleague dwh loves to point out, as lead acid batteries charge, they take an ever lower amp flow, so even if you start out with a massive charge, say 200A, it won't last more than an hour or so before it drops.
-- Weather proofing.
-- Size of vehicle, presence of winch, and size of battery banks. The Traxide has an interesting mode designed to pull down the starting battery to give you the benefits of a larger bank - more current, less voltage sag. But, at the same time, this implies letting the starter battery drop to about 12.5v. Some would consider this a no-no, not because you won't have enough current to start your vehicle, but because a 50% discharge can be hell on a starter battery. BUT, equip your vehicle with deep cycle batteries at both ends ... And that might be really slick for a smaller Jeep/Toyota where the whole mess is under the hood and you don't have room for hundreds of amps of camper battery.
Some models have extra time built in to allow the starter battery to fully charge first, some keep the batteries from combining during engine start, and some are designed to work with two engines or alternator. There are many ways to do this. While I like the Blue Sea, I actually use a Magnum SBC driving a Blue Sea relay. The Magnum opens the relay if the charging voltage exceeds 15v, possibly an issue with a Chevrolet that may have lead calcium or calcium/calcium batteries and which raises the charging voltage to 15.5v in cold weather. (I also have a dash override switch which allows me to force combine or force separate the batteries.)
Most folks will be very happy with either the 120A or the 500A Blue Sea ACR.
All of this is moot, however, if your cables are not up to the task of jump starting - wire everything up with 10 AWG and you are wasting your time.