Finding the right carry is just like everything else. Try a bunch of different things until you find one that works for you. After a lot of trial and error i finally found my soul mate. The Sig 229 feels like it was made for my hand and i haven't found anything else that even comes close. Unfortunately i am most accurate with the 357 sig rounds and they are on the pricey side. Close to a thousand rounds so far without a single failure.
I also have a ruger 357 mag revolver for when civilization comes to an end.