Right...those magical EPA fuel economy #'s, generated under very specific testing conditions, which everyone replicates in the real world. That must be why the fuelly average for the 3.5l ecoboost F-150 is exactly the same as the EPA rating...oh wait, never mind:
2019 Fuelly F-150
Certainly a lot more apples to apples than what you were doing: comparing an older, heavier Tundra (with fewer gears and 4.30 final gearing) to a newer, lighter F-150 w/ gear ratios and # gears optimized towards fuel economy.
Never said the TFL videos were perfect, but they certainly offer a better basis for comparison.
My understanding of turbo gasoline engines comes from reading &
having driven numerous turbo engines (F-150 ecoboost' and a few BMW's). I appreciate their strengths but I'm also willing to acknowledge their weaknesses. They burn through fuel at the rapid rate when under load...if this is news to you, then I might suggest you do some more reading. Or maybe try out some tow/haul tests of your own.
Your real world driving may not see much of a mpg hit. However, most other F-150 owners do some hit to their mpg's in typical driving. Hence why the Fuelly averages are lower compared to the EPA ratings and why there are numerous articles and studies discussing the discrepancy between the official ratings and real-world results.
Sorry for bursting your bubble...