I know a bit about this stuff. My way is to buy a good cranking battery and not abuse it. Then I buy a cheap deep cycle and beat the crap out of it by completely ignoring the 50% rule.
Since I like to stretch a parachute over the whole area, including the truck (it holds up the center of the chute), I use the smallest generator I can find to power a decent charger and fire it up every few days to recharge the battery.
Of course, I have to replace the battery every two years (or less), but I don't care...I pay half as much when I do so it averages out the same.
This seems like my only viable option up in the PNW. It also happens to be the most expensive option - cost of dual batteries PLUS a generator.
fridges are worth it 100%. i would spend the time getting it right now and then rock it out. I'm going to do an isolator on my main starting battery to my AUX and then let the truck charge both and also have a solar panel for when i'm stopped. The isolator will protect the start battery from getting to low.
Don't get me wrong, I definitely want a fridge. Having the wife's approval already I feel like it needs to happen at some point. I'd just like the most sensible solution that allows me to keep the truck off for 3-5 days and run the fridge, although it sounds like the truck part might not matter since the stock alternator might not rapidly recharge the battery.