The response from Stark is entirely consistent with their position that they are selling a "drop in" lithium battery and since the DC-DC converter is doing more or less what an alternator does (only better), it makes sense that they see it as compatible.
What is missing from this response is a statement saying that their BMS disconnects the battery from charging at somewhere between 14.0 and 14.6 volts and re-connects charging at ~13.3 volts (below the resting voltage of a fully charged battery). Unless you are stopping charging once the battery is full, you are slowly damaging it. "Float" charging should never be done with lithium (disturbing to see the CTO endorse it). Keeping it at 14.5v whenever you are charging is damaging the battery. Their 15.2v cutoff (3.8v per cell) is appropriate for protecting the battery from immediate damage (if for instance a voltage regulator somewhere in your system fails).
All that being said, you've got good batteries there. I would just spend the extra couple hundred bucks adding in a proper control to turn the charging on and off unless you can get Stark to say their BMS is doing that at the approximate voltages referenced above.
Sorry, feel kinda like your thread is getting hi-jacked here on a tangent - I'll go back to silently enjoying this cool build
No need to be sorry, this is good info. Hopefully we can get a plug and play design that DIY'ers can use.