Highlander
The Strong, Silent Type
We hear you and you might have a point here but the old NA engines will be replaced soon by overly complicated, modern turbo engines mated with some sort of hybrid system.I'd focus on buying the most proven, durable, reliable, simple drivetrain you can buy
For first 10 years they will be unreliable like everything else was in early stage, auto transmission comes in mind.
If you drove an auto in 60s your masculinity was questioned. Today we are competing who's got more gears in the new transmission.
If you have less then 7 gear you probably are gay... (Needless to say I don't share this opinion)
The guy I train my dog with he got a ford f250 FX4 XL last year for the very same reasons you are concerned with. Those engines will be gone in 7-10 years.