Just FYI, I haven't got replies from any of the potential torsion bar suppliers I contacted. I did get an interesting reply from Ursa Minor, sympathizing with our plight but unable to recommend a supplier.
I did take a 3 day trip this past weekend with my wife and daughter (cut short by rain/snow since we don't have a fly) and had a great time. Saw no other FP's camping, but did see just one on the road, on a white double-cab Tacoma on CA 14 northbound near the 395 junction near Inyokern. I still find my t-bar delete a little unwieldy to flip solo, but with two of us it's a piece of cake and it's always more fun to have a companion. The first night camped at Red Rock Canyon the winds were stronger than anything we'd experienced in the FP since we got it, and it held up just fine. It was loud but probably no worse than a tent fly flapping. That night I had the lid supported only by the hood stays; the following night I also braced the tilt poles into the ground but it actually felt less stable .... perhaps with too many support points it rocked a bit more from point to point. By the way, I had taken a similar trip by myself last month, without the FP mounted up. Gas mileage was similar, power and handling definitely were impacted by the load plus two extra passengers and a lot more gear, but I slept better in the FP than in my tent!
-dman93