update update:
swapped in my spare front axle this past weekend. It is an axle off of another 1995 d1, with a good condition diff/CV's in it, and every other component rebuilt.
teflon swivel balls
all swivel pins/bearings new
new rotors
new calipers
new pads
new wheel bearings
new seals
new oil, new swivel grease
existing steering stabilizer was dirty (now clean), but good condition and gave that some new bushings
did the rear a frame joint as well, now with a greasable one
did the radius arms bushings with medium polys (black color)
This eliminated pretty much all of the bad rubber banding, there will always be some play noticeable since it isn't the auto trans, but a huge improvement and I would not consider this an issue any longer.
I have a spare diff and half shafts that may go in as well, TBD, this may remove more driveline play.