I think a Gen 3 is going to be the best bet for my family situation and use cases. Most of the examples around here are 150k plus. Beyond the general desire for a history of timely maintenance, typical used car checks, and timing belt changes, are high-mileage Gen 3s reasonably reliable? IMO they seem pretty cheap for what you get, and I don't mind putting in a few thousand on top of purchase price to ensure reliability.