I have a Diamond K400 NMO lip mount and it's worked great, except that the black paint (or is it powder-coating?) on the forward-facing part of the mount has worn completely away after about 2 years. Granted, I put quite a lot of miles on my truck, but I still think whatever paint/powdercoat they used was crappy stuff. Other than that, I've been really impressed.
Precisely my experience. All of the Diamond lip mounts I've used over the years have had 4 set screws.....four very tenacious set screws. You will absolutely cream any antenna mounted on them long before they let go.
As for an explanation of my comments on a "perceptible" difference between mounting types or positions.....The first thing you need to understand is that any place they are mounted will be crappy. Your vehicle makes for a lousy counterpoise. Your vehicle is going to be mobile and passing through varied terrain offering both good an bad "near field" and "far field" effects. This will change from good to bad and back again in seconds as your vehicle is in motion and encounters them. With all the variables your antenna will face while performing its duties, it's never gonna' get a fair deal. If you've read on the interwebz that ********** in the center with an NMO is best....I won't argue with that. If someone sez they audibly gain an additional (insert amount) of db gain due to the position.....I call BS.
The reality is, when dealing with an FM signal you're either in to the other receiving station (repeater, or whatever) or you aren't.
As an example: Let's say we're parked and we've place identical antennas on mounts both in the center roof and on a corner of the vehicle. We've done so with equal consideration to proper installation in each case. While you sit at the radio carrying on a conversation with another station 60 miles away, I'm in the back seat and secretly toggling a switch between them....you would either not notice or would barely notice any difference as I did so. If you were to notice, I'd tell you to begin driving in a circle while we continued. Suddenly, that barely perceptible difference evaporates. I've done this type of antenna shootout a couple of times with various antenna and mounts and while theoretically it can seem like there is a difference you will not audibly notice one.