Indeed... but I'm not one of them...
It's reality and common sense. Is that not logic? There are many MANY legal vehicles on the road that handle like pigs and have a worse stopping distance than your typical expedition style overloaded 1/2 ton. Stating that the pickup is
dangerous merely because the GVWR has been exceeded is ridiculous.
It is indeed. The number given to you on the door sill is just a number, maybe some SAE standards, maybe some engineering SWAG, some lawyer involvement. But it's not an absolute number unless all those things have been done using worst cases with poor cargo management, foul weather, component variance (e.g. they'd have to assume the OE springs and shocks are at their EOL), bad road conditions, limited lifespan and reliability.
Point I'd make is GVWR must assume some typical conditions and if those conditions are not applicable or you've addressed the deficiencies then you adjust your GVW
up or down accordingly. The listed GVWR isn't explicit that GVW is safe on worn tires in the snow, so why shouldn't it be implicit that GVW may exceed GVWR if you have fresh load range E-range (assuming the OE were P-rated, since this is in the context of Toyotas) tires and upgraded suspension on dry roads? It's up to the individual to know what the original rating meant, how it applies to their specific vehicle and conditions and how any changes impacts it.
Obviously it isn't a legal definition for safety. How could it be, when huge RVs are deemed "safe" that have 3x the stopping distance?
Usually it's implied to be a legal restriction but I have not seen anyone cite the specific law or regulation that indicates an non-CDL individual operating an under 26,000 lbs vehicle must do anything beyond operate a "safe" vehicle. And what that means varies widely. In my home state a light truck registration requires a vehicle under 16,000 lbs empty and unless it's US DOT registered you do not have to stop for weigh stations. The only supposition usually made is were you to get in an accident a lawyer *may* try to argue you have liability for exceeding the GVWR, but they'd have to demonstrate that doing so was negligent and the cause of the accident. But they don't argue that you escape liability if you're under it but fail to account for wet roads. It would still be your fault.