Getting back to Scott's question: Where do you want to go in the truck?
If you are planning on traversing tight trails with lots of off camber stuff (typical upstate NY) while being nice to drive up and down the east coast, I would stick to a moderately built truck. You do not need 36" meat to tackle 99% of trails, and the higher stance will make the truck more tippy.
If you are new to wheeling, go to a local 4wd club meeting. Ask the guys what kind of wheeling they do and what modifications they would recommend. Once you have that info, go back and start looking for a truck.
Both options are capable. I don't think they are your only options. Do some research on different build styles and buy / build the rig that is suited to what you want to do with it. Smaller trucks can be very capable, but lack some of the creature comforts. Trucks with big lifts give you plenty of clearance, which can also lift you right into overhanging tree limbs on trails. Old trucks are great, but understand that every 30 yo machine is going to have some quirks.
I'll echo what everyone else said, there is no one solution. Maybe if you post some more of your plans on where you will go with it we can help steer you off to a good start.