Any particular reason you want to get away from cast iron?
You want non stick, easy clean up, and metal utensil OK. That pretty well describes cast iron and carbon steel, and I'd give the nod to cast iron due to cost.
Never seen a non-stick coating that holds up to metal utensils or high heat. They have a time and a place, but if I only had 1 pan, it wouldn't be non stick. The non stick pans I do use in the kitchen are Nordic Wear from the restaurant supply place, they're as good as my Al Clad non stick were, but a whole lot cheaper, so when they get smoked, throwing them away will hurt much less.