Those two are Marine Power Plugs. Not ideal, but sometimes you just need a compatible socket. After doing some fiddling and testing with Hella plugs I was glad I went with Andersons. You could install Hella plugs like that if you wanted. Note the placement, which is contrary to the instructions, everything is out of the cargo space, even when plugged in.
When I did the install, I did the Marine plugs, and the Anderson power pole. I subsequently cut off the fridge plugs on the NL and Snomaster and put Anderson plugs on. This was after experiencing a melted plug. I went to fiddling to see if one or the other could be used without voltage loss and heat, it could not. Even as pictured, with the meter, a 30a rated Anderson Cig style plug adapter.
I would not worry about battery management, the Traxide will do it, I just left the switch in the default position. I'm not familiar with the LR4 layout, but there should be no problem relocating stuff in the box. I believe using the Traxide, should bypass telling the ECU about the 2nd battery. Maybe someone else with an LR4 can pipe in. That is what is nice about the Traxide system, it just simply works. You can also feed your batteries with Solar, battery maintainers, etc. from any end of the system.
Maybe there's someone near you that's done one that can pitch in.