"PROS:
-Ford
Fastest from the factory, good 4wd system, a lot of power, best interior no doubt, easy and cheap to make power with the 6.4, solid axles."
Until you try to tow with it then it slows down. The 6.4 is no 7.3 and the 7.3 is no 5.9 Cummins 12v.
"-Dodge
Most reliable motors, will tow anything you put behind it, easy to work on, relatively cheap to work on compared to other makes, best fuel mileage, easy to make power, (with new clutch) standard trans is bulletproof, when built auto trannys are bombproof, high ground clearence from factory, best 4wd system (imho), solid axles."
Duramax and Cummins since 04 are about the same for reliability. Cummins is hands down the easiest to work on as far as being cheapest of course it is an I6 the others are V8's. Everything since 01 is easy to add power to. The newer Duramax's are hands down the best MPG engines (Comparing year for year) the Cummins 6.7 is not even in the ball park. The best economy 5.9 Cummins could compete with the best economy Duramax ( not comparing year for year) and it was probably more the drivers driving style that won between the two. Nothing has yet reached 12v Cummins status for reliability when comparing stock engines (good power and bullet proof) not even the 24v or the CR 24v. This is debatable however if you factor in power levels of the the newer engines and everything save the old IDI's are newer.
"-GM
Quick, Allison tranny is very stout when truck is stock, or near stock, "
The Allison is most durable and has the best self protection software IMO, but not the quickest to shift. Therefore awesome for towing not the best for drag racing.
"CONS:
-Ford
On 03+ you have to pull cab to change headgasket, V8 not the best fuel mileage, good luck finding a stamdard trans, expensive parts"
Having to pull the cab is a engineering team needing their faces smacked. I still find it gut wrenching that they did that. Since the 7.3 was retired Ford has yet to put out an okay motor in stock form. I am watching the 6.7 though and they seem to be redeeming Ford. Time will tell. You can leave the cab on to work on the new 6.7 and yes it was a selling point the dealer pointed out.
"-Dodge
Stock auto can't handle much power, 24 valve lift pumps need to be upgraded asap to an airdog or fass pump ($400), Dash always cracks, no crew cab until 03."
Built Dodge auto as said above is bullet proof also it is currently in the fastest diesel drag truck behind a duramax. Depends on the year as to needing to upgrade the lift pump. 03-04 yes 05 on maybe your choice.
"-GM
IFS, Allison tranny won't handle a lot of power (defueling trans), V8 mpg, weak when towing (personal experience), cheap interior, expensive, hard to work on."
IFS can be made stouter mostly by upgrading the steering. The 5 speeds Allison could hold into the 800-900 ft-lb in overdrive and well over 1000 ft-lb in all 4 lower gears. This makes a lot of power relative, based on my 6.2l the Allison can hold over 3.3 times its output in overdrive and about twice what the old Cummins 12v put out stock. The Allison 1000 can be built to hold about any power level it just won't be the fastest to shift through the gears. As of 2010 the Duramax/Allison is the fastest up Eisenhower tunnel and it uses the least fuel doing it, it is also the fastest to stop with a load.
Personal experience I could out pull both Ford and Dodge up the passes loaded with about the same weight. Note I said up on flat ground it did seem a bit slower to accelerate when in a passing situation. Ask bftank I would let him pass going down the hills in his 7.3 and then I would pass him going up the next one, but we were well matched on flat ground.
I can vouch for the Duramax being hard to work on if you have doubts look up how to change the water pump.
Boiled down all the diesel's in stock form mechanically will outlast the truck they came in. The newer CR injection systems do not seem to be as reliable as the older systems. All the newer auto tranny's are strong and between them getting stronger and emissions getting tighter they have pushed manuals into the past. The chassis will always be the weakest link.