I have a 2008 JKU that I purchased with 55K on it. I just turned over 100K and I have had zero issues with the 3.8. I run synthetic 5W30 and typically go through 1/2 a quart of oil between my 3000 mile oil change intervals. I'm also a level 4 Chrysler tech, and believe me folks, this motor may not be a powerhouse, but it has sailed many neglected minivans well over 200K with little to no issues.
I should also note that I purchased it completely stock, and have since done a full AEV JK 350 conversion, and push 37inch tires around daily.