Same sorta Feedback on my 01. My speedo is still off 3 or so mph but much better with the "taller" tires. The truck is just as zippy and no need to worry about the clutch except when towing too much for my truck. Like a cord of firewood in a utility trailer. Oh and I run with a cap, hi lift jack, chain, tow ropes, come along, shovel, hell, I have way more than I need but find a need for most of it often. I would bet I'm 350 pounds over stock weight daily. I have a set of helper springs installed too.
On my 2008 Tacoma, I saw a very noticeable drop in snappy driving when I put on 265/75R16's. Not that you are going that route but I just thought I'd mention it. Between the drive by wire lag and the bigger tires, I was stalling all the time like a first time manual driver. I think had I gotten the 235's, I would have been happier with my overall experience with the truck. The 265's looked nice and filled it out well but killed the get up and go of the truck. Also, I like a manual T-Case and hope, like the 4runner, they bring it back as an option on the Tacoma next time around.
-jorge