I totally agree with your weight carrying justification. One additional point for SFA over IFS is that generally it's quite a bit easier to add minor (up to 3") lift without adversely affecting the front end geometry. If you level/lift the front end correctly with <$400 new springs (for a 3rd gen Dodge I would recommend you look no further than Thuren 3" soft ride springs) the ride improves, you don't jack your camber adjustment range, you don't adversely affect your bump/droop ratio in the truck's total suspension range, and the caster can be gained back with a simple adjustment. Add longer control arms to recenter the front axle in the wheel wells ($500-1000) and gain articulation and strength. All this and you're increasing the axle down travel without having to buy multiple compensation shims or drop brackets, or have to worry about your balljoints or other parts being loaded at a different angle than stock or operating in an extended range that they weren't meant to operate in. For an SFA I especially like the idea that the tires are always perpendicular to the axle so when you're flexing over an obstacle such as a rock, the tire being lifted is contacting with more of the tire thread and less the tire sidewall.
My experience is limited to a 2nd gen Dodge Ram 24V 5.9, but it has Thuren soft springs, Thuren tuned Fox 2.0 shocks, and longer control arms and corrected steering linkage and some other goodies, and can say this truck drives/tracks/steers better than any 2500 diesel should. There's a lot of carryover in design, sizing, and actual interchangeability of some parts between 2nd gen and 3rd gen Dodge so I feel like I have a good grasp on how a 3rd gen Dodge could handle with just softer springs and proper steering linkage (upgrading to T-style steering linkage from the stock Y-style design is a MUST upgrade for any 3rd gen you would consider, if it hasn't already been converted). It's quite beautiful how simple the 5.9L is in all of its configurations.. 12V, 24V, common rail.. all are progressively more electronic yet dead nuts easy to work on offroad. I can kneel on the front bumper and reach down to the top of the oil pan on both sides of my 24V.. try that with a Powerstroke. Pretty cool how recently/long these engines held out for with practically no emissions crap (except DPF.. hah what a joke, so easy to remove) compared to their Chevy and Ford equivalents.