That's not at all how QDII works. It operates as QTII until in 4Lo, then it's not only instant, it's very often predictive and can vector 100% torque to one wheel if necessary. There is no waiting. Lockers will never deliver 100% torque to one wheel if required. WK2's don't have the 4 wheel version, which is unfortunate, but they are still better than just rear lockers and it's cheaper to add front ones than both. The JK comes with open diffs, it's a Torsen gear set, nothing at all like ELSD... just open diffs LSD or not. Cars have that.
I understand that you're a fan of the system - and for good reason. In my current 5th gen ranger I'd actually prefer that sort of system to the manually selectable rear locker that I have in there. It's a far better choice for the type of driving that I end up doing in that Ranger. I took a look at the vid that you've posted, and I like what you've done with your WK. I also like the fact that you get it out and wheel it to the limit of what it'll do without worrying about the paint.
We can certainly possible to postulate about how many angels are dancing upon the head of the pin earned by sending 100% of the torque to one specific wheel. The honest truth is that's useful if you're in varying traction condition on icy roads or gravel, and it will be very serviceable for most off-road situations, right up until you find yourself in a situation where all of the wheels have marginal traction. Once you get to that point it is far preferable to have a constant and predictable flow of torque to both (or all four) wheels. In those situations, sending 100% of the torque to one wheel won't gain you anything other than having another wheel slipping because you're trying to put more torque through the interface between tire and surface than it can accept without slipping. Having a predictable flow of torque to a wheel whether it's in the air or on the ground is also beneficial when you know you're going to lift that wheel for part of the obstacle - when it comes down, it's still turning at the same rate as the rest of the wheels and it's going to contribute to your forwards motion at the very instant that it contacts the ground, without waiting for the computer to decide that it has an acceptable level of traction to start getting torque. For challenging off-road use like I get up to in my JK, there is no substitute for the ability to have your differentials actually locked. Over the past dozen years of fairly gnarly off-roading I've had the chance to see both fully locked diffs and a variety of limited slip and electronic systems in terrains including muskeg in Northern Canada, deep erosion ruts in the Canadian Rockies, extreme high altitude in the San Juans, slick rock in Utah, and goopy clay in Texas.
If you'd like, take a look at this clip of a situation where a constant, steady, predictable flow of torque to the wheels is beneficial.
This is a little day trip that my father and I went on to a local area after we got back from a week in Moab. And yes, you're completely correct that there is an easy bypass immediately adjacent to the obstacle. I deliberately took a difficult line through the obstacle because I knew that I had both the combination of suspension travel, footprint from aired down 35's, and constant flow of torque to all four wheels that's required to maintain grip throughout the entire obstacle.
I actually wish that I had some video from my trip to Moab in 2017 with that same rig - the day that we did Golden Spike had some good examples of where having a wheel continue to turn at the same speed as the others was beneficial.
I am a huge believer in modern AWD systems for the way that 99% of all people use their vehicles, and I'd be delighted to have one in my chosen daily driver and foothills rambling vehicle....it's just not the right system to go into a vehicle that is being used by someone who is dealing with truly ugly obstacles and terrain. For your uses an AWD system looks like a great choice, I'm simply saying that for what I get up to in my Jeep it's preferable to have two locking differentials.