Explorerinil
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You can buy OEM 4:10 gears, nitro has (or at least had) OEM gear sets. On my 16 ram cummins HO I ran 37x13:50 and 4:30 gears which was perfect… you may find that you will want at least 4:10’s.I was originally worried about this as well until I actually got the truck and started driving around with the 3.73's. I think we should be ok considering Ram used to run 3.42 gears and the Aisin has such low 1st and 2nd gears. That being said, I do not tow like you do however.
You may be waiting a long time before there are aftermarket gears for this new axle. Have you looked into using the 4.10's out of a dually? That way it'd be OEM as well.