Quite a neat little thread here.
Diesel appliances in an RV have my full attention. I think if you have a diesel powered truck, you owe it to yourself to try and research the diesel systems, because having one fuel for everything is quite simplistic. When I build my camper it will have a Webasto Stove and Webasto Dualtop for heating/hot water. Putting aside the "single fuel" pros, I think another big pro is having such an abundance overall of fuel. It is very easy to transport liquid fuel, and very compact to do so. A 5 gallon jug of fuel is much lighter and easier to carry than a 5 gallon propane tank, and it carries far more BTU's. Where I plan to camp, in cold weather, having a diesel furnace will be very efficient.
As far as reality goes, these appliances are not too expensive, but definitely costly. The stove and heater cost around 4-5k combined, so it can put a dent in your plan. It would be much easier and cheaper to simply throw a propane tank, run a line and hook up a cheap catalytic heater. IMO , unless I was building a new camper, I would just go with propane. Diesel appliances are best left to the more expensive, newer campers, valued at 50-100k or more. Having a 5-10k diesel system in a camper worth only 5-10k itself might be a waste and overkill. JMO