You all wanted to know what happened, now you do I have never bought anything from a online forum or otherwise before , obviously I have learned my lesson , you all know not to buy something from him if it comes up and now we can all quit being so judge mental. I list the money not you!
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It can be difficult to admit that you got scammed. There is real loss involved, of dollars, trust, and faith. However, there is an important lesson too. When you share the whole story, it helps others learn. One key reason that scams are successful is that people are afraid to share the story of what happened to them, allowing the criminals to operate in shadow.
Did you make a few mistakes? yes. had you spent more time reading about other scams you might have prevented those, or maybe not. I’ve made a dozen or so buy-sell transactions here, almost all have gone well, with the exception of one. There was one sketchy character involved that wasted a bunch of my time preparing to sell an item, but they did eventually show up, so I didn’t call them out. For the most part, the community is strong, helpful, and honest. It seems that the scammers are few and far between, and spread across both businesses and individuals.
The only way to fully prevent this is to deal in-person, in cash, and take immediate delivery. It is still likely that some people will drive long distances and get ghosted. I’ve personally driven more than 1000 miles on multiple occasions to purchase used equipment and had the good fortune to deal with people that were solid and honest. They’ve had the same good fortune.
It is probably time for a sticky to talk about how to prevent scams across the board?