That would be highly unusual. Providing power to the starter side causes weird behavior unless charging power is greater than the DC-DC's rated output:
- solar charges starter batt at 10A
- starter batt voltage rises to DC-DC cut-in
- DC-DC starts charging house bank at 30A
- starter battery voltage drops to DC-DC cut-out
- repeat until the sun goes down
This is right.
I have a Victron DC-DC charger, specifically a 220 watt Orion, to maintain my house and have a 15A Morningstar solar controller. As a test I tried feeding into the starter but I have only 100W of solar, so I don't come close to saturating my solar controller and am much lower than the bulk current capability of the Victron.
I expected the sequence you describe and wasn't surprised when it occured.
There may be ways to alleviate this using voltage turn-on, turn-off and restart values but it will never work completely seamlessly unless you set the ride-through, e.g. DC-DC has turned on but you set the under voltage turn-off, so low that the starting battery must draw down to keep the DC-DC on.
Ultimately using ignition sense to hold off or manually enabling (or perhaps a disable when using solar) the DC-DC is the only way around this.
My Victron does have an external on/off switch just for this purpose. It is jumpered from the factory so that it only runs based on the software settings. I put a small switch on it so I could control it just in case but it's rather inconvenient and doesn't really efficiently use the solar since the house battery is discharging while the starter is mostly sitting at float.
I'm feeding my solar into the house and if I need to jump, as has been suggested, I'd just use the (mostly) topped house to do that but you could I suppose alternate days charging the starting battery with days drawing it down deeply forcing the DC-DC to stay on.
I'm very surprised if a new Land Rover would draw down it's battery that fast that you couldn't spend a few days parked.