They eat tires because people don't put enough quality damping on them, not because of any inherent problem with them. The shock that works for a live axle on leaf springs will be woefully under-damped on a TTB.
This is correct.
On road TTB will be at static/steady state most of the time, OR the perturbations are such that there will be little wheel movement (relatively speaking).
With TTB the camber change curve is large with larger movement of the suspension. This is what leads to the uneven wear across the contact patch.
Stiffer dampers will lessen the amount of suspension cycling but may make the ride feel too firm for most tastes. I drive sports cars so a firm ride in a truck has never bothered me provided the suspension actually worked versus skittering over obstacles (think unloaded one ton truck).
Edit: another thing that got the TTB a bad reputation was sagging springs that subsequent owners saw in the used market. All springs sag with age/usage, TTB would show wear patterns because of it. If the spring has sagged an appreciable amount over the stock configuration then no alignment would fix the tires being worn prematurely. It's geometry... least wear has the axle shafts and tire contact patch parallel to the ground at steady state - making allowances for alignment values of camber of course.
Back to the OP...
IFS and solid axle have their places.
In my opinion the best solid axle suspensions are four link systems. They control the caster change curve properly with suspension cycle while keeping the loads equally distributed across the chassis. All the modern solid axle Jeeps use these systems (AFAICR). Those crazy Renault guys that owned AMC in the 80s knew what they were doing when they designed the Quadra-Link system for Jeep. I'm at a loss for other manufacturers that use a four link system. There must be some?
Radius arms are more common on solid axle trucks. They have quirks but are simple in design, construction and are light years ahead of leaf springs for ride quality (I'm speaking stock for stock setup like say a FSJ versus a FZJ80).
Other solid axle vehicles that use radius arms: Defenders, FZJ80, G-Wagen, Discovery.
Leaf sprung solid axle trucks can work too given enough effort. I'm not a fan of leafs on the front axle unless you like the "period" or "vintage" wheeling rig or are trying to keep it stock. I'll do a coil front suspension on my YJ when I turn my attention to it. I'd run leaves before IFS given a choice.
IFS can be perfectly suitable depending on the various usage constraints discussed in the posts above. If you pursue IFS make sure that the suspension is a proper SLA (short long arm or double A-arm) setup. Struts have no place on a vehicle where there is a lot suspension travel required (i.e. trucks). Strut suspensions suffer from problems similar to the TTB without a whole lot of "win" versus the TTB.
If you are not going to build a hard core wheeling rig (you're here versus a wheeling site so I'm guessing not) then pick your vehicle based upon features, not suspension per se. Sure a good ride is important, but so is engine type, reliability, cargo space, etc.
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